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How to Find Your Most Beneficial Personal Meditation Style

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Discovering a personal meditation style might take a while, but the benefits are worth it.

Developing one’s personal meditation style rarely comes immediately. Even Buddha, by all accounts a naturally gifted meditator, needed time to develop his techniques. In this article, we’ll discuss what influences there are on our meditation practice. We’ll also discuss what techniques we can use to enhance individual practices while diminishing those things which detract us. Remember that meditation is a transformative practice. One that affects our brains and consciousness and it’s best to view it as a process rather than a goal in is own right.

At its best, benefits of meditation can be seen in areas such as concentration, finding clarity and improving emotional well-being. Therefore, finding the meditative route that suits you best is generally quite rewarding. To begin with, let’s examine the things that influence our abilities. Or otherwise, how to develop a personal meditation style.

If every 8 year old in the world is taught meditation, we would eliminate violence from the world within one generation.

– Dalai Lama

Fields That Influence Individual Meditation Style

You may think that you just meditate and that’s it. If so, then all the best for you. However, most of us, if we are honest about it, have plenty of things that influence our personal meditation style. Bear in mind that these can carry both positive and negative influences. Few of us have lives which allow us, for example, to get into a meditative state at the drop of a hat. Each of these fields of influence makes us the sort of practitioner that we are.

When you are seeking a meditation style that will suit your development, lifestyle and personality best, then it is likely you will experiment a little. When doing so, try not think of there being either a right or a wrong way of doing things. What you should remember, however, is that influences have an impact on you and they will ultimately affect your chosen approach to meditation.

Type of Meditation

There are countless of styles of meditation from which you might choose to practice. Although experts may recommend one method over another, you will find one or more that work particularly well for your process. Conversely, certain meditative styles may not suit you or, more correctly, suit your personal approach to meditation. Many times, beginners start with guided meditation, usually based on a visual narrative. A high-level form of meditation known as transcendental meditation and lives in the domain of experts. Kundalini and heart-rhythm meditation are both popular styles. Zazen meditation is also quite common – a Zen approach which is self-guided. Each style will have an impact on how you go about meditation. It is quite common to experiment with differing approaches.

Length of Time

According to Hooria Jazaieri, a researcher, teacher and psychotherapist at UC Berkeley, the length of time you meditate will impact on how successful it will be for the individual concerned. She asserts that 10-15 minutes of mindfulness and compassion-based meditation is the right length of time for her style. Research published into how long it took smokers to reduce their intake following meditation sessions found that a mere five hours’ worth over a two-week period was enough in the majority of cases.

Y.Y. Tang, et al. showed that even brief meditation training improved their group’s capacity for self-control and lessened their smoking. If you are still unsure as to whether the time you spend meditating has an impact, then consider another study first published in the Journal of Psychiatry Research. The study claims that the density of brain matter in areas associated with memory, stress and empathy can increase following regular 30-minute meditation sessions.

Frequency of Meditation

Of course, you should also take into account the length of time you meditate for in the context of how frequently you do it. For some, 10 minutes a day is enough because it is part of the routine. Perhaps longer periods are required if you are less frequent with your sessions. There are studies to back this simple idea up. They show that the sample groups that get the most out of meditation are the ones who do it most frequently. A notable example of this sort of research into frequency is one published in the Journal of Positive Psychology following work conducted at Stanford University.

Qualitative Considerations

Not all meditation sessions can be described as great successes. Sometimes the quality of the meditation session we have gone through can be stunning and sometimes less so. Usually, there is an outside influence on us which has an impact on the quality of the meditation. You can become distracted by noise or visual stimuli. Perhaps you started to meditate too soon after being busy with something else. It’s also possible you so desired a successful meditation that you couldn’t clear your mind as you would have liked.

As creatures of habit, all people like to repeat what they have deemed to be ‘successful’. But the truth of it is, that is not always possible to with meditation. Acceptance of the ‘outcome’ of a meditation session is a big part of whether it has been successful or not. Furthermore, no single meditation session should come into judgement based on its own merits. Each one progresses to the next and builds on the previous. So over-scrutiny of qualitative factors may be a detrimental consideration on its own.

Meditation Settings

Being in a place that you are comfortable in and will be free from distractions is an obvious choice for developing your personal meditation style. The ability to cut out ‘mental noise’ is often very conducive to meditation. However, you should also consider that busy places can be fine for meditatively-minded people. Meditation in schools – not places you might traditionally associate with calmness – has had good results. Try multiple settings to find which place suits your preferred personal mediation style. Remember that a setting is not necessarily a physical location, such as being at home. It might relate to other factors, like the presence of others. Another consideration would be to have a dedicated spot or a useful place which also serves other purposes.meditation style

Methods of Finding Your Personal Meditation Style

Reflection is the key to understanding your own style. It is perhaps unrealistic to immediately know what has made a difference to your meditation right after completing a session. Therefore, keeping a journal of your reflections about your meditation sessions can be invaluable. Perhaps you feel the same after a session as you did before, but cannot say why. Journaling is the ideal method to use in order to work out what similarities of technique, setting and qualitative considerations there are in common between meditations.

Unlike journaling, modern neurofeedback devices provide actual quantitative measurements of brain activity during meditation, and this can be very telling if you are looking for some hard data to work with. According to Tracy Brandmeyer of the Centre for Brain Research and Cognition at Paul Sabatier University in Toulouse, neurofeedback is an aid to meditation which offers the opportunity to use mobile technology in ways that assist all sorts of people.

If you meditate in a group or with a mentor, feedback sessions are also a beneficial option. Members of the group or your mentors can discuss what influences your meditation has. They can also help clarify what may work better for you and what might not.

Self-Optimization and Mindfulness

Making meditation a kind of target to be achieved runs contrary to many of the principles it is supposed to engender when practised. Indeed, developing a personal meditation style as a self-optimization goal is the very opposite of self-compassion. As such, striving for it can be counter productive. On the other hand, if you develop your own style along the way to a wider set of meditative purposes, then you may find more success.

Focussing on short-term aspirations about your personal meditation style can also have adverse outcomes. If you have a fragile mental state or are suffering from trauma, then being overly determined to develop your own style may not be the correct path to take. Research conducted by Willoughby Britton at Brown University has already indicated that mediation can have a negative effect on certain people. Remain mindful of what the purpose of meditation is and remember that it is a progression, not an ambition.

In Summary

No two people are the same, so no two approaches to meditation will yield the same results. For many people, reflecting on the way they are going about meditating by journaling is beneficial. As is trying new approaches that will help to find a suitably accessible style. Consider all of the options available to you and don’t be put off experimenting a little with your chosen practice.

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