Abuse

What is abuse?

 Where does abuse stem from?

As mentioned, abusing behaviour is commonplace, even if we do not always recognise it as such. That said, the more unpleasant forms of abuse usually – although not entirely – come from people who have been abused in the past. This is sometimes referred to as the cycle of abuse, whereby it continues to be passed on, one victim to the next. At its simplest, most psychologists agree that abusers are seeking to gain dominance in some way because of inner insecurities that they are not necessarily addressing in another way. Although this does not mean abusers are absolved of guilt for their actions, it helps to put it into a wider context.

Can abuse cause anxiety disorders?

Yes, it can. Abuse is related to a number of mental health problems, including anxiety, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. Where children have been abused, they may find it difficult to form enduring relationships in later life due to an inability to trust, according to attachment theory. Short-term effects tend to include confusion and feelings of shame. Longer lasting outcomes often include social withdrawal and insomnia, among others.

What is emotional abuse?

Sometimes referred to as psychological abuse, this form means the psychological capacity or the emotional stability of the victim is put out of kilter. It will often involve comments or emotional responses that place the victim in a situation whereby they fail, no matter how hard they try. Emotionally charged abusive behaviour will commonly be conducted by an extremely egotistical person. In such cases, it is sometimes defined as Narcissistic abuse. Generally speaking, physical intimidation is not part of this sort of abusive behaviour, although it can run concurrently.

How can you handle abuse from another?

No one should put up with abuse. It is always best to seek help. Simply by explaining the situation to a trusted friend or a professional will help you to see the abusive behaviour for what it is. The point is to handle it by removing yourself from the abusive situation rather than to find ways of continuing to endure it.